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Post by Deleted on Jan 15, 2012 0:50:15 GMT -6
I had dreams about end of the world type events when I was 19... I didn't think any of it had anything to do with aliens at the time though (put it out of my mind for years you know...) Even though one of the dreams involved a female gray alien who took me to a long white hallway that seemed to go on forever... but yea... I thought that one was "Just a dream" too so... ~shrug~ JC... thank you for sharing your feelings and thoughts with us on here. ~hugz~ You're right. I used to laugh about things I would do when I would "sleepwalk" and I also used to laugh about the sleep paralysis and the other dreams/nightmares I had... but now... like you said... it seems... more "serious" now than it once was... because I am also "facing" what it could potentially be... which is FAR outside my comfort zone... yours as well... anyone's really... When Steve said the visions given to people by aliens usually do not come to pass, I think he was quoting other researchers. He is not the only one who has said this, other investigators and researchers have come to his conclusion as well. He is a researcher and an investigator. He gathers information and makes connections between the data. I don't think he is saying abductees aren't really psychic, I think he is saying that the aliens are liars. Budd Hopkins thought that too... RIP Mr. Hopkins... the aliens "give us" premonitions of stuff that turns out to not be true... but our own natural psychic abilities are probably accurate... That's what I got out of what he said at least. Correct me if I'm wrong Steve...
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Post by Deleted on Jan 15, 2012 11:52:46 GMT -6
"I don't think he is saying abductees aren't really psychic, I think he is saying that the aliens are liars. Budd Hopkins thought that too... RIP Mr. Hopkins... the aliens "give us" premonitions of stuff that turns out to not be true... but our own natural psychic abilities are probably accurate"
Oh, ok. Sounds good.
Thanks! ;D
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Post by Deleted on Jan 15, 2012 11:59:13 GMT -6
~hugz~
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Post by paulette on Jan 15, 2012 12:47:49 GMT -6
There is another possibility (OK there's a thousand more possibilities) but in this one, the ETS are better at reading future probabilities. Leading forward from the now the possible futures splay out in all directions. Much depends on what I and other do NOW. The butterfly effect talks about how actions done in the past by time travelers might adversely affect the now. But small effects done now can vector us into a different future than may have happened.
For all humans' stupidity about long term effects - no one has detonated a nuclear device and began a major nuclear disaster. When I was in 4th grade and taught to hide under my desk (duck and cover) it was very likely. When Russia fell apart and plutonium was stolen from the unguarded facilities - very likely. But luckily - not acted on.
If there are guardian angels they are working overtime. I do not believe the ETS are our guardian angels. However knowledge is power. There are people who are are prepared as they can be for the coming disaster - whatever form it takes. Stored food, growing talapia in their swimming pool, gas mask drills with the kiddies. The rest of us pretend that nothing of any significance will happen to take us off the grid and grocery distribution system. Hmmmmm.
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Post by Deleted on Jan 15, 2012 14:21:24 GMT -6
"If there are guardian angels they are working overtime. I do not believe the ETS are our guardian angels." Agreed. On another thread I recently tried to cut and paste something Steve said along these lines, and also involving the nuclear threat. . _____________________________________________________________________________ "There is another possibility (OK there's a thousand more possibilities) but in this one, the ETS are better at reading future probabilities. Leading forward from the now the possible futures splay out in all directions. Much depends on what I and other do NOW. " Agreed. And why I mentioned the word "tracer". There is a children's series on time travel right now that is a quick but good read, and uses that word. One of the books is called "Sent", another, "Found". I can't think of the author's name, but "tracer" is a good word for the "impression" that our bodies leave in the past. Impressions of people who REALLY did activities in the past. The book(s) are about thieves who go back in time and steal important children (like King Edward) before they mature and MAKE our current history. Of course then there are others who are trying to return the children . Anyway, when the children go back, they see their "tracer" doing what it did do. . , (modified to remove an extra word; "and")
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Post by Deleted on Jan 15, 2012 14:31:00 GMT -6
I sincerely hope I didn't bother anyone with my interpretation of "ghosts", and what happens initially when we die. I haven't talked about all my experiences . I feel it is worth adding that I have been "comforted" by something (?) invisible to myself, also. It was as simple as a light stroke of a hand down my arm, and repeated. It did not "give me the chills". And the timing was perfect. I did not get the impression that it was anyone I knew, or should know. I felt like "someone" cared enough about me to observe that I was in pain and wished to comfort me.
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Post by paulette on Jan 15, 2012 17:11:52 GMT -6
That is an amazing story - even more so because you were not "expecting anyone".
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Post by Deleted on Jan 16, 2012 20:03:33 GMT -6
"I would not count ever on any alien intervention to prevent a nuclear conflict, nor could I imagine an insane world leader would place the planet in that position to test that very theory. " Read more: theedgeofreality.proboards.com/index.cgi?action=display&board=theories&thread=1735&page=1#21027#ixzz1jfzjovPq_____________________________________________________________________________ This is the statement from Steve that I mentioned 'in passing' above. For a somewhat different reason than what we were talking about here, but yet not. I had a major argument with someone a few years back. He was trying to explain to me the danger of certain people developing nuclear capabilities. I was trying to say there was no real danger. I'm not near the intelligence level that he is, but it didn't make sense to me that someone would nowadays knowingly provoke a reason to "nuke a country". Even an "insane" leader values his own life. My bet was that the "insane" leader was much more comfortable carrying out "small attacks" (such as terrorism) and letting other people die. Just my two cents worth.
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Post by Deleted on Jan 16, 2012 20:09:48 GMT -6
And thanks, Paulette.
As much as a normal human being wants to feel special, I sure don't have to look for it much.
Sometimes I wonder why that is? I don't deserve anything more than anyone else.
So that's what gets me thinking sometimes. . . am I an "experiment" since childhood?
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Post by skywalker on Jan 17, 2012 19:35:21 GMT -6
"I would not count ever on any alien intervention to prevent a nuclear conflict, nor could I imagine an insane world leader would place the planet in that position to test that very theory. " _____________________________________________________________________________ This is the statement from Steve that I mentioned 'in passing' above. For a somewhat different reason than what we were talking about here, but yet not. I had a major argument with someone a few years back. He was trying to explain to me the danger of certain people developing nuclear capabilities. I was trying to say there was no real danger. I'm not near the intelligence level that he is, but it didn't make sense to me that someone would nowadays knowingly provoke a reason to "nuke a country". Even an "insane" leader values his own life. My bet was that the "insane" leader was much more comfortable carrying out "small attacks" (such as terrorism) and letting other people die. Just my two cents worth. I don't think that the leader of a country would ever provoke a nuclear war because they would destroy themselves in the process. There are a couple of exceptions to that rule though. If a country with nuclear weapons was involved in a conventional war and was on the verge of losing than the leader might launch the nukes thinking he had nothing to lose by doing so. The second possible scenario is if the leader of a country were to give the nukes to some terrorist group who could go set them off somehwhere while the leaders of the country denied having anything to do with it. They might think they were safe enough to get away with it.
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Post by Deleted on Jan 19, 2012 22:43:19 GMT -6
"Three hundred talented students at Sharif University and about a thousand brilliant students at the country's universities have applied in recent days to change their major and start studying nuclear physics and nuclear engineering," Kamran Daneshjo, Iranian Minister of Science Research and Technology, said in a press conference Monday, according to Iran's Tehran Times. Daneshjo's comments came five days after the assassination of 32-year-old Mostafa Ahmadi Roshan, a former graduate of Sharif University and, until his death, the deputy director of the Natanz uranium enrichment facility, according to Iranian media." FULL COVERAGE: Who's Killing Iran's Nuclear Scientists?
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Another scenario is if the leader of a country were to give his permission to some terrorist to go kill individuals, while the leader of the country denies having anything to do with it. They might think doing this will stop whatever they have decided is wrong.
What now?
Why do we even have to consider that one life lost could potentially save thousands, if not millions, of other lives?
We do think we are god. We've been sacrificing our own sons for so long that we've forgotten what results we expect.
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Post by Deleted on Jan 19, 2012 22:53:26 GMT -6
Wow JC. I wish I could say something to that, but I can't.
That's some heavy stuff man...
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Post by Deleted on Jan 20, 2012 7:28:16 GMT -6
Someday, when all this is part of history books, I hope that it is noted that world leaders had a change of heart.
The "miracle of 2012" .
IMO, a natural catastrophe at this point, is our world vomiting us up.
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Post by Deleted on Jan 20, 2012 7:59:59 GMT -6
Speaking of "alien intervention" in a general term, all the "sightings" lately are encouraging. Again, everything is speculation on this subject, but I see a positive idea forming here. . . If you had higher intelligence, and "knew" our Earth was nearer and nearer to self-destruct, for whatever reason, would you be here? Would you "stay" to try to help, or "stay" until the last moment just to watch, and then be confident in your ability to get away? I'm always going to question the notion of higher intelligence. The notion of greater purpose. Please excuse me while I check my emotions at my prayer time, and then go do some things on purpose today.
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Post by skywalker on Jan 20, 2012 16:03:51 GMT -6
Leaders of countries sacrifice people for all kinds of reasons. They justify it by saying that it is for the "greater good" of the country which really means whatever is good for them. The rest of the people are insignificant as far as the leaders are concerned. There are bomb shelters designed to save the lives of all of the important politicians in Washington if a nuclear war were ever to happen but where are the shelters for the rest of us? Do they really think they could survive without all of us peons to do their work for them? What good does it do to be a ruler if there is nobody to rule over? Apparently they haven't thought their plan through very well...
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Post by Deleted on Jan 21, 2012 10:54:16 GMT -6
Just because things have "always been this way" doesn't mean we have to continue to accept it . If anyone read me on the mufon forum in the past 2 yrs. (and not just "skimmed' me) I talked more than once about the possibilities of civil war right here in America. It wasn't MY prediction, and when I first heard it I agree that it sounded preposterous. I just reported what I had heard. I don't want to go on and on about the "war issue"(but I will for a bit ) . As I've said before, a group that lives in peace has to always be ready for someone else who covets what they have and be ready to protect it. That is reason enough to have the latest "war machines" and keep human forces in training. That's just how this world is. I'm old enough to recall hints of conversation about the possibilities of assassinating Castro. It sounded like a good idea at the time, as opposed to hand to hand combat on his territory against his troops. It didn't happen. Now we seem to be a big part (with other countries' help) of removing "world leaders" who have caused problems in general for most everyone. It's interesting, to say the least. Speaking of hand to hand combat, the movie "Saving Private Ryan" depicts some absolutely horrifying scenes. Children (and I mean children) watch horror/kill movie after movie, and develop a type of numbness to it. I don't think watching "SPR" has that kind of psychological affect on anyone exactly, and there has actually been some studies done. Look it up . Back to the scientist in Iran recently killed. First of all, conspiracy theorists had a site on the internet some years ago (I believe) with pictures, names, and other details of scientists who had died recently. People pooh-poohed it. Numbers and death appear to be random things unless you do a comparison to say, recent deaths in housewives? Has anyone checked the recent numbers on infant mortality lately? (?) Anyone can pick a subject and expound on the "numbers involved". However, if you dare, look into this enemy scientist death. (Can I call someone from Iran an enemy right now?) Recall how we have recruited scientists from other countries. Not saying we have anything to do with this death. Recall how we have recruited scientists from other countries. (yes, I know I said that twice. Good, you are paying attention). Now, I hope you have found the article that shows this man smiling next to his young child. Read this article. Someone makes wonderful (IMO) comparison to killing with drones and video game killings that are imaginary. Blink. How many movies have shown motorcyclist placing a bomb on a car? Since I was young, let's say as far as I can remember, I have had a particular "hatred" for the CiaX*. Out of nowhere, as far as I knew. Even when the first B was running for pres I felt major trepidation about where we as a country were headed. I rarely saw news clips on TV growing up (very sheltered) and all we had was the best set of encyclopedias money can by, so how and why was I already so opinionated? That is why I'm putting all this as part of my experience thread.
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Post by Deleted on Jan 21, 2012 12:04:11 GMT -6
* changing the subject * "Anyhow, my "ear ringing" IS less. However, I think the joke is on me. What I'm about to say is totally insane. Over a week ago, driving under an "unknown" way, way up in the sky (just a light in vision), I swear I heard three chimes of a bell (like from a church tower). The light had caught my attention, don't know why, and this is what happened. Sounds like a stupid dream, doesn't it? The noise happened only as I drove underneath." Read more: theedgeofreality.proboards.com/index.cgi?board=encounters&action=display&thread=1418&page=7#ixzz1k7IGAIvL______________________________________________________________________________ Worth noting that I have a clock chiming regularly at home now, since we put batteries in it around Dec. 25, 2011. It has taken getting used to as it is set for every 15 minutes. It is "sweet" some days; other days; anyone have a hammer handy? ;D Its chime sequence is Westminister. I also checked out that chime on the internet. If you hear the chime from a distance, it is somewhat similar to the sequence of sound that is used to "communicate" with the ufo(s) in the movie "Close Encounters of the III". Hmmmmmmm. Doesn't feel creepy one bit. What were "they" (movie sound people) thinking?
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Post by skywalker on Jan 21, 2012 12:36:52 GMT -6
If anybody is taking out Iranian scientists it would probably be Israel trying to stop Iran from building nuclear weapons since they know that Tel Aviv would most likely be the first target. The Mossad is not going to sit around and wait until after they have been blown up before they respond.
I do remember that article you mentioned about the scientists getting killed. I think we might even have it posted here somewhere. I have no idea where it would be though. There were a lot of them that had died under mysterious circumstances. Given how much competition there is, not only between countries but also among corporations and Universities, it doesn't surprise me that a lot of them are getting killed. There actually are corporate assassins as well as political ones.
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Post by Deleted on Jan 21, 2012 13:45:38 GMT -6
Even when we have 'visions' or inklings of the future..does anyone really listen? I've noticed so often that if something is said that doesn't agree with someone else's opinion..either they A. get upset and angry over an answer they didn't want or B. They ignore it. Far better to adopt the idea that there could be more than one answer for a situation or topic and that the answer we cherish isn't necessarily wrong just another version. Many ... many people do not believe in 'psychic' abilities. So? It's not their time to believe it. But it is ours. What does it bother if someone doesn't believe it? We are in an age of a deeper 'enlightenment'. Doesn't mean we're more enlightened..means we WANT to know more..we NEED to know more and it makes us just a bit nutso when the answers are like digging through cement. But we're not alone in the pursuit but that doesn't help because we need to know RIGHT NOW. I've asked and asked and asked. I have angel guides (and NO they are adamantly not et's) I have spirit guides (and they are NOT et's either)..and they give me messages. Wait..be patient..everything is in motion exactly as it should be..etc...and this is exactly what my cards show too. That does not curb the appetite but there it is. LIVE your life..hunt your answers..but be willing to understand that not everyone has reached your level of searching...of need. That should not matter to you...you can't drag others along with you. Ask for help..but be willing to listen even if it's not what you wanted to hear. Remember too..others search in ways that might ruffle your feathers. And remember too..there will be more and more suicides and murders than ever before because people are depressed and confused..don't join them.
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Post by Deleted on Jan 22, 2012 17:50:19 GMT -6
depressed, confused, and deceived.
Are we "spellbound"?
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Post by Deleted on Jan 22, 2012 18:55:42 GMT -6
~hugz JC~
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Post by Deleted on Jan 29, 2012 20:37:00 GMT -6
My memory seems to be affected lately. The solar flares or whatever could be a likely cause, or it could be the few gray hairs I have . I'm dreaming a lot, but not remembering much at all, even if at the time the dream seems so important. 2 things that stand out: One dream, people were receiving a mark on their wrist, on top, right where the hand joins the arm. It was a brand, and had to be done twice. From what I saw, it was also very painful to get, but people were doing it anyway. A lot. I don't know why, and though I have heard of "end-time scenarios" since childhood, I do't believe I've ever dreamed about it. I didn't think about end-times and the "mark" until after I woke up. I also dreamed I lived in a fortress, of the present time or near future, on an island. We (family, friends, and I) were eventually penetrated by people posing as "police". It seems I had to go through the entire dream as a part of it, all the way until a bad ending. Then, the same dream started again, and it was like I got to change details, hopefully for a better outcome, because I knew how and when to change things. Such as, as soon as a certain boat approached the island, I recommended outright shooting the occupants as soon as they landed. Some of the details seemed small and insignificant; such as when a phone rang, not letting a person answer it. Then the dream started again a third time. Don't know what to say about this.
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Post by Deleted on Jan 30, 2012 4:21:01 GMT -6
ugh. It does help to write this stuff down. I woke up early today thinking about what I posted here last night. I remember now the "revelations" I had initially about the dream of the fortress on the island. The island was a representation of our earth; space being the surrounding seas. Of course we think we are a fortress . There have been several times I have visualized a "police force" (in dreams) in Space. Funny how this time I say (in my mind) that "they" are only POSING as police (good police) to gain entrance to our "fortress" without problems. In the scenario where I suggested that we shoot them outright (as they set foot on our "island"), which people followed my advice (?) and did, it turned their "activities" into something more covert..... I can't go into great detail (it would take too long), but "their" next attack became more of a "spiritual one", including our religious institutions. If (big if) my dreams mean anything, I was actually fearful of them when I thought "they" were really police. They had convinced me I had done something wrong, but their condescending manner on questioning me after unlawful detention was my first clue. Then, what "they" actually wanted from me was something I didn't have. They joked with each other about it in front of me, but then angrily attacked the "fortress" with more "men" and equipment. This was in the first dream go -around. By the third dream go-around, we had established a hidden "fortress" underground, on the same island. With no water leaking in? And, as a weird side note, a large wild bear on the island that was scary in dream #1, was now turning to us as friends (for refuge?) in dream #3. And this is how I start my week.
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Post by skywalker on Jan 30, 2012 20:08:51 GMT -6
You had the same dream three different times? That's weird. :-/Maybe you will keep having it until you get it the way you want it to be. Or maybe "they" are trying out different scenarios to see how you respond to each one so they will know what works and what doesn't.
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Post by Deleted on Jan 30, 2012 20:29:51 GMT -6
O.o
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Post by Deleted on Feb 3, 2012 3:06:51 GMT -6
Interesting thoughts, my friend . I could be even trying to do lucid dreaming unconsciously. (?) I'm so sorry I always say "I'll come back to this", but I can, right? More pressing 'experiences' . They may somehow be related. Guess what I've been doing? I'm looking at houses. Either I'm tired of my dinner crumbs in my bed, or I'm making the proper decision. my life is so "dramatic" right now, that actually i'm trying to stay away from 'the parents'. And someone's prolly going to suggest I get a nanny-cam (not from lore's people ). Anyway, my sis and her husband should arrive next Wed, with (2) trailers of their stuff, and the timing is perfect for me to "slip away". . .Unfortunately, I have had to ask my dad a couple of questions about some happenings at this (his) house, and he's a bit psychic anyhow (not that he knows it. He just has an uncanny way of knowing what i'm up to). Golly, I'm being vague and dramatic. I'll try to start somewhere . First of all, of the regular posters' on teor, I'm the single female . You may have noticed that I didn't respond to that guy ufowhat'speace when he said something about this. Later, when talking about my sleeping "tics", I purposely mentioned that I prolly should NOT be married. What the guy said was very laughable but yet weird, and that was a tough one. Why should I explain?? First of all, I do like fixing up other couples to meet (he mentioned running a dating site?) and did this in the past. Number 2, I really have no desire to romantically date, and the last time I said that "out Loud", I was aggressively pursued. But I thought about my "hermit-crab ways", and while my daughters were at church last night I went over to a friends home for approx. 2 hours and looked at her wedding pictures (from 2 years ago ). We had a good visit and it was hard to get away. Now, the drama. I had parked my car directly in front of her house, on the street. All I had to do was look over my left shoulder and pull out. No traffic. Which I did. And. . .suddenly a speeding car flew around a corner and came in front of me sideways and slammed on their brakes. A spotlight was playing over my car and I'm considering backing up, and some huge, really tall guy dressed as a policeman gets out of the car with one of those big rifle-thingys and walks up to my driver's side. He had to motion with his hand and talk loud with a smile for me to put down my window. We are barely parked in front of my friends next-door neighbor's house. He asks me if I'm ok? Then he asks me if I am the Pizza Hut delivery driver that was just robbed. Lame! Then he just went back to his un-marked and left with its driver. I go on. Wondering if my friend or her husband saw anything. ugh. And this is just the most recent event.
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Post by Deleted on Feb 3, 2012 4:19:07 GMT -6
Guess what I've been doing? I'm looking at houses. Either I'm tired of my dinner crumbs in my bed, or I'm making the proper decision. Kelly and I are looking too. We've been paying on this one for several years but we want land of our own. Before my last divorce I was a landowner and now were buying a 2001 16 x 80 mobile home (riviera riverside) on a lot space that we rent. We may end up giving this up and buy a house with land, or have an agent refinance us and pay this off and move it. The water here is so bad that its making everyone sick and were tired of this scenerio,,,not to mention (other) problems that go deep. As for what you mentioned about having a spouse,,,I honestly went 8 years after my 2nd divorce without dating ! I knew some day the right one would come along and I was in no hurry to find her. I started having kids at a very early age during my first marriage and after the second divorce, I took a long,,,well needed break. I had to (find myself) if that makes any sense. There were interested women out there,,, but I wasn't interested !! Some day when you least expect it to happen that special one will come along . One day I was sitting in a parking lot waiting on my daughter and this woman starts talking with me and I asked her " is your name Kelly"? It blew her mind because she had been in Florida for 30 years !! She asked me " how did you know thats my name "? I said " because we went to 4th grade together here in xxxxxxx ;D ---to make a longer story short,,,thats how we met up (again).
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Post by Deleted on Feb 3, 2012 14:21:42 GMT -6
I can understand why those women are interested in you Cliff... You're a handsome dude (from the pictures you posted). Kelly is certainly a lucky woman, and from what you have posted, you are a lucky guy to have her too!! ~hugz~ Cliff, I'm glad you guys found one another! JC, you're not the only single one. I'm thinking about breaking it off with the rich guy. He's been extremely distant lately because of school and last weekend he wouldn't even tall to me for a few minutes because he had "homework" all weekend. So much homework he can't have a 15 minute conversation? Really? Nope. There's something else going on with him... and the ice road trucker stopped texting me after two days. Mom said she heard they had an avalanche up North... I hope he's ok... Cliff, I've had lots of boyfriends and I dumped most of them, and was dumped a couple times too. I still have two exes who chase me around every now and then on facebook, trying to entice me to go down to the lower 48 states for a "visit"... LOL Cliff... you guys wet to 4th grade together? ;D That's soooo awesome! JC: Some people are better off single... a few of my friends are that way. Some people are happier without a "significant other". I was single for the last two years as well. I put my whole heart and soul into my old job for a year and a half... until I joined the local rock band and all of that but yea... friends are better than a bad relationship IMO... even if your "friends" are a bunch of crazy musicians with a beer drinking/pot smoking problem who like to fight over Lorelei the keyboard player... ("Oh yea??? Well she likes MY SONG TOO!!!" *POW* ) The main reason why I'm looking for someone is because I miss not sleeping alone mostly... sleep paralysis is less scary when there is someone else there... all you have to do is roll over and instantly feel better... and you can shake him awake if you hear a weird noise or see a strange light without having to get up out of bed... Also, now is a good time to buy land (to both JC and Cliff). That's what the dudes on TV say at least...
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Post by Deleted on Feb 4, 2012 0:43:15 GMT -6
JC: Some people are better off single... a few of my friends are that way. Some people are happier without a "significant other". Read more: theedgeofreality.proboards.com/index.cgi?action=display&board=encounters&thread=1418&page=9#22832#ixzz1lO42mRFj_______________________________________________________________________________ Why is that, do you think? I mean, I have a definite opinion. It is case by case (to each his own), and my reasoning is, for me, that I just don't have anything to offer right now. And that's not "putting ones' self down" . I have prioritized my life and I have nothing "left" to give. There are all kinds of relationships, and I don't want to be the type of person who has studying to do all weekend and can't give quality time to someone who seems to need me . (Note to lorelei, this guy just may be prioritizing. He did let you know why he wasn't calling. IMO, if he didn't care a fig about you he would just not answer your phone calls. WAIT 'til you start going to school again to decide. . . ) That book and movie "He's Just Not That Into You" ruined it for a lot of people. What I mean by this is relationships are not always "by the book", black and white, and life is unsure. It all depends on what a person wants, and expects from others, doesn't it? You want someone who is there for you on the weekends (normal IMO). Just because THIS guy can't do it, doesn't mean that you decide to be single ;D . _______________________________________________________________________________ Some day when you least expect it to happen that special one will come along Read more: theedgeofreality.proboards.com/index.cgi?action=display&board=encounters&thread=1418&page=9#22832#ixzz1lOBNaYLP_______________________________________________________________________________ This is true. It has happened before, and I "expect" someone special . That means that I do want one person and it will turn out to be the best timing for both of us. I have prayed about it, and I really want to focus ONLY on my kids right now. Kids REALLY need a responsible adult. I do not expect, nor want, some "stranger" to come along and say, "Hey, let me help you with them kids". . . I have dated since my divorce to have some "me- time" away from them, and had some great dates, but ultimately I have to choose which "master to serve". A thoughtful guy once asked me what I NEEDED from a man, and I gave him my honest answer. Being a friend, he laughed and told me to get myself a dog. I did ;D. Lorelei, you stated what you want. You tell about flirting and the different guys that you talk to and date. IMO, you are already single and are just "shopping". It is fun to flirt. Are you "practicing" a skill that you will share with someone special? Yes, I believe in flirting with one's own spouse. Otherwise, just make it clear that you're just lookin' for someone to share your bed, and plan on NOT having just one guy share your life. I don't understand people like you, on this. You seem to want this guy going to college to commit to you, but all the while you're lookin' around just in case he doesn't. On this earth a person can do whatever they want and to expect someone to do something THEY can't do, is unreasonable. How many people go around saying " I will commit to one person IF. . . " . when they should be saying "I will remain single UNLESS. . ." Yeah, kind of harsh. But real. We can't force someone else to be who WE want them to be. We shouldn't be able to 'train' or 'mold' someone into our one ideal. The giving of ones'self to another, and them truly reciprocating the same, is a gift. Sounds like Cliff and Kelly WANT the same things. This is a trademark of receiving such a gift.
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Post by Deleted on Feb 4, 2012 1:52:50 GMT -6
Now, this is all well and good, but you guys (touched and lorelei) got me distracted . I have a lot of weird stuff happen to me, even if it's just my perception (whether it is flawed or not flawed remains to be seen). The incident I mentioned that happened at my friends house has nothing to do with my dating life, other than IF I have these things happening, whoever he is (that I'm dating) will have to be understanding. In fact, I fretted about my friend seeing this happen. How does anyone (including you guys) explain this? If the policemen thought I actually was the Pizza Hut delivery man who got robbed, explain their startling behavior, please. Really nervous cops?? Were they thinking I was leaving and had been drinking? Has there been other "questionable" people leave this house? I'm trying for every other answer, other than stupidity. There are policeman on duty every day, in 2 shifts, at my job. I have no qualms or problems with any of them, of course. Any ideas?
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